Anonymous asked: How do you stop thinking of the other guy as a forbidden fruit? What should you think of him as instead? (I'm the same anon, but I have the same situation)
Try one of the following: Stop idealizing him. Stop thinking of him as the best thing that could ever happen to you. Stop overlooking his flaws; in fact, try to find flaws. Appreciate the person you’re with—what is it that attracted him to you in the first place? There must be something there that should allow you to overcome these little challenges. That being said, if your relationship cannot withstand your attraction to someone else, you might have to start reconsidering things.
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