Anonymous asked: I'm the "Ex's current" anon. I don't want us to become really great mates (as that's the direction we're headed) only for her to find out and think I've kept things from her intentionally. I'm also a bit uncomfortable about the fact that he hasn't told her. Would it be more appropriate to approach him? Like I said, I don't want to become best mates or something and have her feel betrayed that she didn't know this if it slips out (as it will, eventually. We have a rather small circle of friends.)
Talk to him first and work out a way for one or both of you telling her
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